{"id":1891,"date":"2022-01-20T01:47:44","date_gmt":"2022-01-19T16:47:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sowataya358.com\/?p=1891"},"modified":"2022-01-20T01:47:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T16:47:44","slug":"must-see-for-parents-how-to-misrepresent-feelings-to-a-child-who-has-childhood-cancer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sowataya358.com\/?p=1891","title":{"rendered":"[Must-see for parents] How to misrepresent feelings to a child who has childhood cancer"},"content":{"rendered":"

[Must-see for parents] How to misrepresent feelings to a child who has childhood cancer <\/p>\n

This is a must-see for parents of children with childhood cancer.<\/p>\n

Parents will surely say this word when they see a child who has cancer and is having a hard time.<\/p>\n

[I want to change the pain of my mom (dad)]<\/p>\n

But this is wrong.<\/p>\n

Then, I will explain why it is wrong.<\/p>\n

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childhood cancer<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

I developed childhood cancer (osteosarcoma) when I was 10 years old.
\nI am very grateful to my parents for what I did at that time.
\nAnd I still remember what my parents did and I will never forget it.<\/p>\n

I, a childhood cancer survivor who has had such an experience, will explain.<\/p>\n

When I saw a child who had cancer and was having a hard time, my parents just said<\/p>\n

“I want to change the spicy food”<\/p>\n

I will tell your child.<\/p>\n

but,<\/p>\n

\u2460 For example, even relatives can take the place of painful things
\n Can’t be<\/p>\n

\u2461 “I want to take the place of my painful feelings”
\n As I said, your child’s spiciness will be lighter
\n Not really.<\/p>\n

Your child will be very confused when spoken by his parents.<\/p>\n

It’s even more confusing because it conveys the feelings of your parents.<\/p>\n

For parents, the child is in the heart<\/p>\n

“Thank you. I only have feelings.”<\/p>\n

You would think.<\/p>\n

Your child will pay attention to the words of his kind parents.<\/p>\n

and,<\/p>\n

[Never get someone to take the place
\nWhat you can’t do]<\/p>\n

[I have to accept everything]<\/p>\n

It reminds me of a very painful feeling.<\/p>\n

and,<\/p>\n

You can hit the reality again.<\/p>\n

Your child will once again be overwhelmed by the painful feelings.<\/p>\n


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