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[Onset of cancer] From denial to affirmation The only way to change ideas<\/p>\n

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Everyone in this world<\/p>\n

Having cancer can be seen as a negative event in your life.
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but,<\/p>\n

Being a cancer survivor<\/p>\n

Being able to meet and get to know various people can be regarded as a positive event.
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By changing the way of thinking in this way,<\/p>\n

\ud83d\udd37 Learn how you can turn negative things into positive thoughts.<\/p>\n

\ud83d\udd37 It’s good to know this conversion method<\/p>\n

Knowing how to transform this idea can positively stabilize negative events and positively stabilize one’s state of mind.<\/p>\n

By practicing this conversion method, I myself no longer get angry with events or people.<\/p>\n

Getting angry can be thought of as a negative response to an event or person.<\/p>\n

By not giving yourself a negative response, you don’t even get a negative idea.<\/p>\n

However, when you hear this, you may think this way.<\/p>\n

“Just be patient?”
\n“You will get stressed.”<\/p>\n

Etc.<\/p>\n

But I’m not putting up with it, I’m not stressed out, and I’m not putting up with painful feelings.<\/p>\n

My colleagues ask me this question with a mysterious look.<\/p>\n

“Why don’t you get angry?”<\/p>\n

But I haven’t put up with it,<\/p>\n

“Why did you think so?”<\/p>\n

From the perspective of my colleagues, it seems that I can hardly understand it.<\/p>\n

I think that not getting angry is a very easy way to live in this world.<\/p>\n

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I want to live comfortably in this world,<\/p>\n

What do you guys think?<\/p>\n

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In this world full of unconvincing things, you can come up with an answer as to which is the happier way of life.<\/p>\n

On top of that, this theme<\/p>\n

[Onset of cancer]
\nThe only way to convert ideas from denial to affirmation
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I sincerely hope that you will also face us.<\/p>\n

\ud83d\udd37 About the disadvantages of this conversion method<\/p>\n

The disadvantage of “how to positively transform negative events” is<\/p>\n

In any case, it may not be possible to convert positively.<\/p>\n

That is the fact that has happened.<\/p>\n

For example, “onset of cancer”, “metastasis of cancer”, etc. cannot be converted by this method.<\/p>\n

\ud83d\udd37 Obviously, “the facts cannot be changed”.<\/p>\n

What I’m telling you here is<\/p>\n

“The only way to convert ideas from denial to affirmation”
\nis.<\/p>\n

Again, the facts that have happened cannot be changed.<\/p>\n

But it’s not just the disadvantages.<\/p>\n

Now let’s talk about the benefits.<\/p>\n

\ud83d\udd37 I will explain the wonderful future that the result of learning this conversion method will bring.<\/p>\n

It is not easy to learn this method and put it to practical use, but I think that anyone can realize it by accumulating experience and time.<\/p>\n

I’m sure everyone can do it, so please try it.<\/p>\n

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\ud83d\udd37 Let’s start the explanation.<\/p>\n

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There are four pillars in this method.<\/p>\n

[How to count happiness]<\/p>\n

[Past affirmation]<\/p>\n

[Determine by yourself]<\/p>\n

[Give to people first]<\/p>\n

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\ud83d\udd37 Always imagine these four pillars.<\/p>\n

In converting negative events into positive ones<\/p>\n

It’s like building this pillar to build a sturdy building.<\/p>\n

Negative events are so unstable when converted positively that they try to return to negative ideas immediately with a slight fluctuation in mood.<\/p>\n

Therefore, it is necessary to have a strong and strong idea.<\/p>\n

A sturdy and strong idea requires a solid, axis of thought, which is the idea of \u200b\u200bthese four pillars.<\/p>\n

It may be a little confusing, but it’s okay if you understand it carefully, so please read it over and over again.<\/p>\n

In \ud83d\udd37, I will explain the idea of \u200b\u200bthe four pillars in order.
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[How to count happiness]<\/p>\n

For those who think, “There is nothing good at all!”, I will teach you the most effective way of thinking.<\/p>\n

It is [Looking for little happiness].<\/p>\n

Limited to small things.<\/p>\n

for example,
\n“Count 10 or more little happiness that you felt in a week.”<\/p>\n

And give yourself a challenge.<\/p>\n

\ud83d\udd37 I’m a little happy.<\/p>\n

For me, it looks like this<\/p>\n

\u30fb The traffic light happened to be a green light<\/p>\n

\u30fb When I took a walk, I met an acquaintance for the first time in a long time<\/p>\n

\u30fb I found what I was looking for under the desk<\/p>\n

\u30fb What I just wanted was a bargain sale<\/p>\n

Roughly, it looks like this, but I was able to get 4 cases in just 5 minutes.<\/p>\n

[Past affirmation]<\/p>\n

If you’re thinking, “I can’t help what’s gone by!”, It’s a good idea to remember this method.<\/p>\n

\ud83d\udd37 What I want to tell you here is<\/p>\n

[The past can be changed! ]<\/p>\n

Is to say.<\/p>\n

But you will be negative.<\/p>\n

“You can’t change what’s gone!”<\/p>\n

Yes, it’s no wonder you said.<\/p>\n

I’m a person with a different idea.<\/p>\n

To change the expression a little,<\/p>\n

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[You can change your way of thinking about the past].
\nIt was<\/p>\n

[You just have to change your mindset]<\/p>\n

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for example,<\/p>\n

\u30fb Last year’s challenge ended in failure.
\nHowever, by switching my mind and trying again, “It’s a chance to challenge again!”, I got even bigger results.<\/p>\n

I want you to experience that new good things are born by thinking positively about the past.<\/p>\n

[Determine by yourself]<\/p>\n

First of all, I will show you some very important words.<\/p>\n

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[I am responsible for my life]<\/p>\n

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No matter what happens or how your life changes, you are responsible.<\/p>\n

So if you make a mistake, don’t blame others.<\/p>\n

Even if you stumble on something<\/p>\n

“You should be careful. Let’s be careful next time.”<\/p>\n

If you think it’s because of someone else, you tend to say negatively, but<\/p>\n

If you can think of it as your own responsibility, it will be easier for you to think positively about yourself.<\/p>\n

You just have to decide for yourself that you are responsible.<\/p>\n

[Give to people first]<\/p>\n

It is difficult to “do” to others when you have negative emotions.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, when you have positive feelings, you will not hesitate to do something to others.<\/p>\n

In this way, when one is happy and filled, one does something to another. In other words, you will be able to “give”.<\/p>\n

The point here is to swap results and actions in reverse.<\/p>\n

That is, take action first and get results.<\/p>\n

For example, when you give (give) something to a person, you feel happy.<\/p>\n

“Give it to others and you will be happy.”<\/p>\n

In other words, you can be positive thinking.<\/p>\n

Did you understand these four pillars?<\/p>\n

[How to count happiness]<\/p>\n

[Past affirmation]<\/p>\n

[Determine by yourself]<\/p>\n

[Give to people first]<\/p>\n

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\ud83d\udd37 Always imagine these four pillars<\/p>\n

When converting a negative event into a positive one, imagine these four pillars as the axis.<\/p>\n

Negative events are so unstable when converted positively,<\/p>\n

It is necessary to have a strong idea and consciousness because it tries to return to a negative idea immediately with a slight fluctuation of mood.<\/p>\n

Accumulate experience points from practice<\/p>\n

As long as you live in this world, you will continue to encounter many negative things and situations.<\/p>\n

In such a case, remember the content of the article.<\/p>\n

And try it.<\/p>\n

Imagine yourself being able to catch negative things positively.<\/p>\n

I’m sure it will work.<\/p>\n

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