ほっし校長 [I recommend it as an osteosarcoma survivor] How to reduce the mental burden on people who have cancer (No. 1)
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◼️ This article is recommended for relatives (parents, friends, etc.) of cancer patients.
◼️ Read this article to solve your worries about how to deal with cancer patients.
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Developing cancer is a very shocking event.
It’s like a big wall in your own life, and the events that greatly affect your life are very mentally burdensome.
I think it’s easy to understand that people who develop cancer have a huge mental burden.
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If you are a cancer survivor (experienced cancer)
You may be able to understand the patient’s feelings.
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I developed childhood cancer (osteosarcoma) when I was 10 years old.
I can understand the patient’s feelings and the weight of the mental burden.
When I developed osteosarcoma, I felt heavy, dark, and wandering in a very deep darkness.
In addition, my doctor’s doctor asked me to notify me of cancer and to approve my leg amputation.
My surgery, which had already been diagnosed with terminal cancer, was performed in a very difficult situation.
The surgery was successful and I am still living well 40 years later.
After that experience, I can understand the feelings of cancer patients very well.
It is very difficult to explain the mental state in words,
I will explain it in my own way in an easy-to-understand manner.
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[Bright greeting] reduces mental burden
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◼️ Bright greetings will lift people’s mood.
◼️ Say hello to people with a bright tone
Then the person will feel a little better and feel brighter.
Now, I will explain the specific greeting method.
[Greeting method (points)]
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The points are the following 6 (1) to (6).
① Gently
② Slowly
③ While staring at the other person’s eyes
④ Bright
⑤ With a smile
⑥ In short words
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① Gently
Gentle voice, gentle facial expression, gentle tone
All of these factors gently envelop the feelings of cancer patients.
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② Slowly
Easy to hear from the other party, slowly
Slowly, as if speaking
Please talk slowly
Cancer patients are more sensitive.
Please be calm and talk to me.
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③ While staring at the other person’s eyes
When talking to someone, such as greetings, look into the other person’s eyes.
If you talk while looking away without staring at your eyes, the other person will feel that you are doing something secret.
Cancer patients feel very anxious when they see such a situation.
Talk while staring at the other person’s eyes, and listen while staring at the
other person’s eyes.
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④ Bright
Bright expression, bright voice, bright atmosphere
Create a bright atmosphere with bright words and deeds.
Then, the person who had few words until a while ago will be influenced by the bright atmosphere around him and will eventually start to speak bright words.
Let’s brighten the mood of cancer patients with your “brightness”.
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⑤ With a smile
Your smile saves the patient.
It may sound very exaggerated, but really your smile saves the patient.
Do you all know the word [face treatment] (cancer)?
This is the word left by the deceased Jakucho Setouchi during his lifetime.
I learned this word from Jakucho’s books and audio distribution.
I came across this word and became very conscious of my facial expression.
[Face treatment] (Ganse) Very nice words.
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⑥ In short words
What I want to tell the other person is to impress the other person
It is important to speak as if you were speaking to the other person.
For that purpose, I don’t think there are many words or length.
It is possible to impress the other person with very short and very simple words.
No, rather, I think that short, simple words are what make the other person happy, impressed, and impressed.
When you understand the other person very deeply and share your feelings, you will be able to say the most wonderful [words] you have ever had.
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