[Must-see for parents] What makes childhood cancer survivors the most sad

[Must-see for parents] What makes childhood cancer survivors the most sad

I was diagnosed with childhood cancer when I was 10 years old.

The type of cancer is osteosarcoma, which is a cancer that develops in the bone and is known as a rare cancer with very few cases.

I had an amputation at the base of my right foot, so my initial surgical plan was to prepare my right foot for amputation from the base.

I myself was asked by my doctor to declare my life expectancy and approve my right leg amputation.

At just 10 years old, I told my doctor that I had amputated my right leg.

In such a background,

As a childhood cancer survivor, there was one of the saddest events for me.

It’s a fight between parents.

My parents have had frequent fights and quarrels since I developed cancer.

I learned that the dispute between my parents was caused by my onset of cancer.

I was very sad

There may have been various backgrounds to the reason why my parents started fighting.

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・ My only son, I am facing “death”
Being upset

・ To be unable to do anything in a situation where you cannot escape
Irritability

・ I couldn’t find a place to hit my anger

・ Financial worries such as surgery and hospitalization costs

・ Anxiety about the future of the only son and the future of the family

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It ’s very unfortunate,

This is a normal human sensation, an emotion that anyone can have.

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To pediatric cancer patients

If you are a childhood cancer survivor, you may have such a situation.

However, from a child’s point of view, it may not be possible to compete with such feelings of an adult.

The only thing I can say is

“Don’t feel responsible” for the painful situation from such family discord.

and,

To parents of cancer patients

Sadness in this situation is even more painful for patients facing cancer.

I would like parents of children who have developed childhood cancer to be careful.

The saddest thing about a childhood cancer survivor is the onset of his own cancer.

The adults around me panicked and

You can be thrown away from escapism

A figure that is rampaging

Is to see.

When faced with such a situation, the patient’s child

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・ Blame yourself

・ I hate myself

・ Negatively consider your existence

and,

・ I hate my parents

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It may be difficult at first, but stay calm.

The hardest part is the child who faces childhood cancer.

Parents and the adults around them are in a position to provide heartfelt support to the children of childhood cancer survivors.

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