ほっし校長 [Only I know] The real reason why my grandmother with stomach cancer was not notified of cancer
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Seven years after I developed osteosarcoma
My grandmother had stomach cancer and was fighting illness
The cancer was not notified to the person
Only I knew the real reason
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I felt close to cancer and learned a lot
I’m sure people around me
・ For cancer patients, “power to live”
・ “Weakness of mental strength” for close relatives around the patient
・ Furthermore, “the preciousness of life” is given to those who are related to the surroundings.
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🔷 About 30 years ago, my grandmother had stomach cancer and was fighting illness, but she was not notified of the cancer.
🔷 I know why.
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🔷 Story until the discovery of cancer
🔷 My maternal grandmother was in the hospital because she was in poor health
Received a detailed inspection.
🔷 A close examination revealed a small polyp in the stomach.
🔷 I was told that my grandmother’s medical condition,
but,
🔷 Actually, it was the final stage of stomach cancer (terminal cancer).
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🔷 My grandmother passed away without being told that.
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🔷 I know there was a more important reason why my grandmother wasn’t notified of cancer.
🔷 The reason is 🔷
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① My grandmother’s mental strength against illness is weak
② There is concern that my grandfather’s mental state will become unstable.
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🔷 In other words, neither grandmother nor grandfather can withstand the cancer announcement.
🔷 Perhaps most of the time, when one of the couples has cancer and decides whether to announce it, the couple will tell it to anyone other than the person who has the cancer.
🔷 Of course, if the person who has developed cancer cannot withstand the cancer notification and is worried about mental collapse, it will be decided not to notify the person.
🔷 Then, the reason why I decided not to notify my grandfather was that I was worried about my grandfather’s weak mental state.
🔷 If you tell your grandfather that your grandmother has cancer, you’ll probably be able to keep the secret secret at first, but as you look at her as you anticipate prolonged treatment and worsening your grandmother’s condition. , The grandfather’s mental state may change.
🔷 The mental strength of the person who has developed cancer is the most important, but the cooperation of close relatives around the patient is important, and it is essential to maintain the mental strength of those people.
If a close relative who has become mentally unstable and has a mental collapse involuntarily tells the person about cancer, the confidentiality will collapse and the fact will be informed to the person who developed the cancer at once.
🔷 Needless to say, the person will be mentally disrupted.
🔷 People think that when the mind is stable, it is hard to imagine, but it is necessary to give a cancer notice in consideration of the case where the mind collapses due to some reason.
And for that purpose, I came to think that the cooperation of my close relatives, including my husband and wife, is more important than anything else, because of my grandmother’s cancer.
🔷 I don’t have any medical expertise, but I’m a cancer survivor myself, and my grandmother was a cancer patient, so I’d like to say what I think from my own experience. ..
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