[Onset of cancer] From denial to affirmation The only way to change ideas

[Onset of cancer] From denial to affirmation The only way to change ideas

Everyone in this world

Having cancer can be seen as a negative event in your life.
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but,

Being a cancer survivor

Being able to meet and get to know various people can be regarded as a positive event.
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By changing the way of thinking in this way,

🔷 Learn how you can turn negative things into positive thoughts.

🔷 It’s good to know this conversion method

Knowing how to transform this idea can positively stabilize negative events and positively stabilize one’s state of mind.

By practicing this conversion method, I myself no longer get angry with events or people.

Getting angry can be thought of as a negative response to an event or person.

By not giving yourself a negative response, you don’t even get a negative idea.

However, when you hear this, you may think this way.

“Just be patient?”
“You will get stressed.”

Etc.

But I’m not putting up with it, I’m not stressed out, and I’m not putting up with painful feelings.

My colleagues ask me this question with a mysterious look.

“Why don’t you get angry?”

But I haven’t put up with it,

“Why did you think so?”

From the perspective of my colleagues, it seems that I can hardly understand it.

I think that not getting angry is a very easy way to live in this world.

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I want to live comfortably in this world,

What do you guys think?

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In this world full of unconvincing things, you can come up with an answer as to which is the happier way of life.

On top of that, this theme

[Onset of cancer]
The only way to convert ideas from denial to affirmation
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I sincerely hope that you will also face us.

🔷 About the disadvantages of this conversion method

The disadvantage of “how to positively transform negative events” is

In any case, it may not be possible to convert positively.

That is the fact that has happened.

For example, “onset of cancer”, “metastasis of cancer”, etc. cannot be converted by this method.

🔷 Obviously, “the facts cannot be changed”.

What I’m telling you here is

“The only way to convert ideas from denial to affirmation”
is.

Again, the facts that have happened cannot be changed.

But it’s not just the disadvantages.

Now let’s talk about the benefits.

🔷 I will explain the wonderful future that the result of learning this conversion method will bring.

It is not easy to learn this method and put it to practical use, but I think that anyone can realize it by accumulating experience and time.

I’m sure everyone can do it, so please try it.

🔷 Let’s start the explanation.

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There are four pillars in this method.

[How to count happiness]

[Past affirmation]

[Determine by yourself]

[Give to people first]

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🔷 Always imagine these four pillars.

In converting negative events into positive ones

It’s like building this pillar to build a sturdy building.

Negative events are so unstable when converted positively that they try to return to negative ideas immediately with a slight fluctuation in mood.

Therefore, it is necessary to have a strong and strong idea.

A sturdy and strong idea requires a solid, axis of thought, which is the idea of ​​these four pillars.

It may be a little confusing, but it’s okay if you understand it carefully, so please read it over and over again.

In 🔷, I will explain the idea of ​​the four pillars in order.
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[How to count happiness]

For those who think, “There is nothing good at all!”, I will teach you the most effective way of thinking.

It is [Looking for little happiness].

Limited to small things.

for example,
“Count 10 or more little happiness that you felt in a week.”

And give yourself a challenge.

🔷 I’m a little happy.

For me, it looks like this

・ The traffic light happened to be a green light

・ When I took a walk, I met an acquaintance for the first time in a long time

・ I found what I was looking for under the desk

・ What I just wanted was a bargain sale

Roughly, it looks like this, but I was able to get 4 cases in just 5 minutes.

[Past affirmation]

If you’re thinking, “I can’t help what’s gone by!”, It’s a good idea to remember this method.

🔷 What I want to tell you here is

[The past can be changed! ]

Is to say.

But you will be negative.

“You can’t change what’s gone!”

Yes, it’s no wonder you said.

I’m a person with a different idea.

To change the expression a little,

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[You can change your way of thinking about the past].
It was

[You just have to change your mindset]

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for example,

・ Last year’s challenge ended in failure.
However, by switching my mind and trying again, “It’s a chance to challenge again!”, I got even bigger results.

I want you to experience that new good things are born by thinking positively about the past.

[Determine by yourself]

First of all, I will show you some very important words.

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[I am responsible for my life]

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No matter what happens or how your life changes, you are responsible.

So if you make a mistake, don’t blame others.

Even if you stumble on something

“You should be careful. Let’s be careful next time.”

If you think it’s because of someone else, you tend to say negatively, but

If you can think of it as your own responsibility, it will be easier for you to think positively about yourself.

You just have to decide for yourself that you are responsible.

[Give to people first]

It is difficult to “do” to others when you have negative emotions.

On the other hand, when you have positive feelings, you will not hesitate to do something to others.

In this way, when one is happy and filled, one does something to another. In other words, you will be able to “give”.

The point here is to swap results and actions in reverse.

That is, take action first and get results.

For example, when you give (give) something to a person, you feel happy.

“Give it to others and you will be happy.”

In other words, you can be positive thinking.

Did you understand these four pillars?

[How to count happiness]

[Past affirmation]

[Determine by yourself]

[Give to people first]

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🔷 Always imagine these four pillars

When converting a negative event into a positive one, imagine these four pillars as the axis.

Negative events are so unstable when converted positively,

It is necessary to have a strong idea and consciousness because it tries to return to a negative idea immediately with a slight fluctuation of mood.

Accumulate experience points from practice

As long as you live in this world, you will continue to encounter many negative things and situations.

In such a case, remember the content of the article.

And try it.

Imagine yourself being able to catch negative things positively.

I’m sure it will work.

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