[Must-see for parents] Correct treatment for children immediately after cancer notification

[Must-see for parents]
Correct treatment for children immediately after cancer notification

This content is recommended for parents who are worried about how to treat their child when their child develops childhood cancer and is notified of the cancer.

I’m a childhood cancer survivor
I will publish the recommended
method

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Correct treatment for children immediately after cancer notification ∽∽∽∽∽∽∽∽∽∽∽∽∽∽∽∽∽∽∽∽∽∽∽∽

① Warmly watch over

② Get closer to your child than usual

③ Prolong the meal time

④ For questions from your child
Respond firmly

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There is a reason for ① to ④ above

before that

This is my self-introduction

I am a childhood cancer survivor.

At the age of 10, I developed
osteosarcoma, a cancer that develops
in the bones.

I developed a rare cancer with a probability of about 1 in 1 million people, was notified of the cancer, and experienced confirmation of approval for amputation of the right leg to prolong life.

I think my parents were very careful
about how to treat me at that time.

Then,

I will explain the reasons
from ① to ④ above.

① Warmly watch over

This is just an attitude towards your child.

Keep in mind warm words and actions.

Feelings become unstable after receiving a cancer notice Become.

Don’t be influenced by the ups and downs of that feeling
Gentle and warm to your child
Let’s get in touch

② Get closer to your child than usual

This is close to the meaning of “to snuggle up”.

Your child’s feelings are always in the line of sight

It is a sense of distance that you can feel a sign.

Even for children, the sense of security that their parents are nearby cannot be changed into anything at such times.

③ Prolong the meal time

Meals give you the opportunity to talk to your child.

Enjoy a casual conversation with your child.

At this time, your child should be a little free from the illness.

④ For questions from your child
Respond firmly

Be careful here.

When you have a question about your child’s illness, hug your child and answer it.

Answering face-to-face can be very painful because it gives you a strong impression when you are notified of cancer.

A sense of distance from your child is very important.

And, in response to the question, without swaying

Please answer as many times as you like until your child understands it.

If you have any questions about cancer treatment, ask your doctor as soon as possible and give an accurate answer in your parents’ words.

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[Must-see for parents]
How to answer questions from children who have developed childhood cancer
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The above is how to treat your child.

But from many of my parents

I have the following questions

◼️ Question 1

“What should I do if the upset of cancer notification does not subside?”

◼️ Question 2

“I don’t think I can accept the feelings of my child if I just snuggle up, but what should I do?”

For these opinions,I understand
your feelings.

But don’t worry

Children who have been notified
of cancer

From the time I was notified,
the situation in which I was placed
In the middle, prepare your mind
for the next stage

I’m starting.

and,

Besides, there are moments when the mind suddenly becomes calm.

At that time, I also experienced
such a situation.

The moment I received the cancer notice, I was very upset,

Over time, you will gradually
become calm.

I experienced a very mysterious passage of time, and I felt that the surgery day had come before I knew it.

Perhaps each child is also preparing
their minds.

So I don’t think you need to try to get your child’s feelings or
feel overwhelmed more than necessary.