Determination of cancer notification
When a child develops cancer, I think there are two main ways of thinking about cancer notification.
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① Announce that you have cancer
② Do not announce cancer
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In my case, about 40 years ago, my doctor told me that I had cancer in (1).
At a later date, I was informed that my doctor had the following thoughts.
And because my parents approved the proposal.
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・ Being in a mental state that can withstand cancer notification
・ To be able to select a position that respects independence, aiming for the independence of the person, knowing that he / she has cancer.
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Especially important below
However, when I was only 10 years old, I was not cultivated with strong mental strength.
When I was notified of cancer by my doctor, I was very shocked and depressed.
At this time, it was very painful and I was shocked beyond words.
However, the effect of the announcement was not completely meaningless.
Certainly, when I was notified of cancer, I was very depressed,
After that, it is a fact that positive attitudes and feelings gradually developed during the period from preparation for surgery to surgery and hospitalization.
I realized that I was prepared for cancer,
I never gave up or was thrown away.
I can’t accurately express my feelings at that time,
When I heard the word “cancer”, I was no longer too conscious of it.
I think that the change in consciousness changed the perception of cancer.
No one is immortal, and one day we have to face “death.”
While I was a kid
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Living is next to death
It takes courage to know who you are fighting against (cancer)
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The more I knew the identity of the cancer that had developed in my body, the less scared I was.
I think it was a change that proved that my spiritual strength had been strongly nurtured.
When I was 10 years old, I was informed that I had developed cancer, but thanks to this cancer, I was ready to fight the cancer that had developed in my body.
However, I would like to recognize that not all cancer patients match the same case as me.
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